There’s a strange thing that happens to people when they become known to do something. It could be a certain position at a company, a hobby, or even a topic they are particularly passionate about. Once they reach a certain point, they lose themselves and become ‘that guy’ and it becomes difficult to shake. Unfortunately, that’s been me for quite a while.

I’ve spoken to people about this before, for example, Daryl Baxter, for a while, was ‘the iPad guy,’ and it took years for him to shake it. He’s now the Tomb Raider guy — but that’s his fault! Even worse is when someone interesting gets an important role in a business, and they become simply a mouthpiece for that company. All personality of themselves is removed, and the reason you followed them disappears.

I don’t want that to happen with my work on Micro Social. Most of my posts are in relation to the app, and I don’t want to just become that app guy. An issue further impacted by my lack of time to write recently with all the work I am doing on said app. Thankfully, development will slow down as the app becomes well-rounded. Features are less required, and larger work takes a back seat.

I intend to split out blog posts, documents, and a lot of communication into a Micro Social micro.blog account. So when this happens, I’m hoping normal service can resume. I can get back to consuming the community in a more human way rather than talking about micro social all the time! But the best-laid plans and all that.

Nick Heer in An Age Range API Is Coming to iOS Later This Year

it makes complete sense for age verification to be part of a child’s Apple Account information instead of collected individually by third-party apps.

I can’t understand why this is only now a thing. It’s been right in front of everyone the whole time whilst they’ve been pointing in every other direction.

The Dent in ⭐️ Owning your own space and content is important

Your posts will find a niche, if you want them to, and if not you would have still carved out your own little patch of the internet, ripe for growing something special.

Seeing Andy encourage people to blog is not what I expected from 2025. But I love it!

In recent times, a notion has been repeatedly mentioned by a certain type of self-proclaimed intellectual. You know the kind: those bead-wearing, ayahuasca-drinking, podcast-interviewing types. They have a saying that goes something like, “Do something now that your future self will thank you for.”

This modern mantra is an updated version of something my grandfather used to say, “Write some checks for yourself.” It’s a wonderful way to think about life, though I doubt the aforementioned tribe even know what checks are. But, to be fair, the sentiment is valuable, so I’ll let them off.

The essence of this saying is simple yet profound: prepare and invest in yourself now to reap the benefits later. It’s about thoughtful foresight and making conscious efforts that your future self will benefit from.

Take running, for example. On my long runs, I sometimes allow myself the luxury of a slow mile. I can afford this because it’s been “paid for” by the faster miles I ran earlier. Those fast miles have built up a reserve of fitness and endurance that I can draw upon when needed.

Or consider the way I prepare for my working week. Spending some time on a Sunday evening to plan and organise makes a world of difference. It’s like building a buffer. When Monday morning arrives, I’m less stressed because my past self took the time to smooth the way.

Parenting is another area where this concept truly shines for me. Those early mornings with my daughter Luice are much more manageable because past me hasn’t overdrawn the energy account by going to bed late. By ensuring I rest adequately and manage my time well, I’m able to wake up refreshed and ready, rather than exhausted and resentful.

Whether it’s saving for a rainy day, learning a new skill, or simply maintaining a healthy lifestyle, these are checks written in the present that your future self will cash with gratitude and satisfaction. So, the next time you hear that modern saying, perhaps take a moment to ponder its wisdom. And maybe, just maybe, consider writing some checks to your future self. It’s an investment worth making.

Here in contains number 3442 of ways that I can over spend and overthink my relationship with technology. I am well aware of my shortfall as a human, my ability to appear moronic, and you should not take any advice from my blog posts or podcast appearances. I annoy myself far more than I annoy you, so please know this before reading on.

Since writing about the MacStories iPad Mini review, I’ve been thinking about a lot about my relationship to technology again. Those that have read anything from me over the last few years will already be aware of my tenuous relationship with my phone, but this time it is a little different. My frustration is finding a place where my working life does not push in to, and the idea of a third place raised by Federico in said iPad Mini review highlighted these frustrations and a possible solution.

My working life is essential to me, I design and create for a living, so in many ways it is perfect. To earn a living doing something you enjoy is everyone’s dream; however, I have an inability to switch off unless clear lines are drawn. So, as with every idea that plagues my brain, I went exploring options to find a sanctuary away from working life, in an attempt to disconnect.

I found that place in the first place I went looking. Mainly because I can’t afford to be messing around, but also because the iPad Mini is a great device. Granted, the current 7the generation version that I opted for is a waste of money for most people. However, if you accept the shortfalls of the device, and have a clear idea of what you want to achieve, you will have a much better experience.

I would get a better experience reading on an e-ink device. Arguably, I would have a better experience watching media on a larger device. Hell, I carry a ‘better’ device that is only slightly smaller, in an iPhone 16 Pro Max around in my pocket. With all this in mind, I still adore the iPad Mini for providing a third place. One that is away from the email apps and Adobe sweet that both my phone and MacBook contain.

Carving out this place has been hard going. I’ve needed ScreeTime blocks, signing out of iCloud, and a lot of will power to find this place. The trick is not treating it the same as all your other devices. You only get here by not doing things. By not installing all the usual apps, or copying things over and being clear on the place you require.

At the end of the day now, you will only ever find my iPad Mini lying around the home. My iPhone is in my office, my MacBook is asleep, and the only time they are used is if I really need to. The iPad Mini provides everything I need. If it doesn’t, the intentional barrier of having to go and get something else to achieve the goal provides just enough breathing room to decide whether I want to do it or not.

It has resulted in less blog posts being written, perhaps less things being ‘done’ but I am perfectly happy with that. I like this place.

Presently, I’m taking a bit of a break from being online. I’ve spent so much time looking at things, testing features, and replying to people getting ready for Micro Social to launch that I am a bit burnt out. It’s at this point that I realise the importance of iOS Shortcuts and the great API Micro.blog has.

I’ve been making things using Shortcuts for years. Back when it was Workflow, it essentially powered my day-to-day life, including my company. The app enabled me to work from an iPad, and I was constantly digging in and improving things.

At times like this, though, when I want to be away for a while, I can still write, publish, and share everything I need to, without needing an app. Apart from Ulysses, of course. There’s no friction, no distractions, and no fuss. Of course, Micro Social doesn’t try to hack your brain for more attention, but I’d still find myself scrolling or replying to mentions. So with a few Shortcuts on my phone, I can carry on as I was and still take the break I crave.

There’s some realisation here too. I know I should have built the share sheet well in Micro Social, and no doubt it will come. However, right now, I couldn’t get where I wanted to, so I included Shortcuts by Jarrod instead. Mainly because this fits in with my usage of micro.blog, but I also understand that they can be confusing and not straightforward to make yourself.

I much prefer this extra friction between me and the web. I have no self-control! So I will always opt for great Shortcuts over more integrations, and at this point, we must acknowledge why these work so well. Without Manton building a great API for micro.blog, none of this would exist. There would be no Shortcuts and no Micro Social at all — and for this, I am truly grateful.

Whilst listening to a recent episode of Modern Wisdom, the topic of boredom came up. As with many things in my life, this conversation arrived exactly at the right time. I’m not sure if the universe talks to be or this is some kind of frequency illusion, but it happens quite a lot for me. Anyway, the short but sweet conversation got me thinking, and this post is a result of those thoughts.

“Just to round out the boredom thing, it feels to me like if you don’t have something to take up your time, your habits, and your behaviour will sort of default to the path of least resistance.” — Modern Wisdom: #894, 25 Jan 2025

These thoughts are obviously affected by my current mental state, which is not the greatest it has ever been. I have a very busy task list currently yet find myself constantly unmotivated to do anything outside of work. Defaulting instead to spending too much time online. If you’ve read just a few of my posts before, you’ll know I absolutely hate that!

So the quote above finds me at a particular point where it reflects my life currently. I follow the path of least resistance, which unfortunately is the supercomputer in my pocket, only too willing to hover up my time and attention. It’s easier to pluck my phone from my pocket than it is to open a book to read, or write a blog post I’m working on.

Not only in terms of effort but also in terms of return. I can ignore the world around me much easier, scrolling social media than I can reading a book. I’m self-medicating my way out of the boredom feeling, and that’s not something I have usually struggled with.

Perhaps I’m burnt out. Perhaps I’m struggling with other underlying problems, but currently I am so bored with being busy that motivation for needed tasks is non-existent. There’s some work to do here to ensure these habits do not get out of control, and thankfully, listening to other people’s thoughts on topics makes me aware of the work that needs to be done on myself.

A recent episode of Design Matters with Debbie Millman was a conversation with Seth Godin. Conversations with him are always enjoyable and I often take many brilliant insights away that help me in my creative life. His books and his talks are often all encompassing and the conversation turned to Ai and its effects on the creative industry.

computers really didn’t start making an impact in the design community until the late 80s, which at the time, a lot of the OG designers of that era were vehemently, vehemently opposed to using the computer.

They were certain that we’re going to lose jobs, it was going to take all the creativity out of the process, out of the way in which we created. It was going to create soulless work. Sound familiar?”

This is often the case with people trying to justify things or persuade others to embrace their thought process. Picking an analogy that has some crossover elements, AI needs computers, right, and then conflating the things together. Because X happened and that was fine, that means Y will also be fine.

If you have even a remote interest in tech, you’ve heard this a million times. Defenders of Apple usually point to people that thought the iPod would fail. As if this is proof that everything Apple does will succeed. When, of course, you only hear about the successes. You don’t hear about all the products that were predicted to fail and then did (apart from Humane). Because one thing happens once, doesn’t mean it ever will again.

Computers turned out fine for the creative industries. It allowed them to be much more accessible and even opened other areas. That doesn’t mean that AI will work out the same because the same noises are being made. I mean it might, but it also might not. There’s less to be learnt from the past, but it doesn’t always repeat itself.

The last few weeks have been a wild ride. After deciding to push my skills forward and release the app I developed for myself, I pushed myself further than I expected. Learning new skills, leaning on other people for help, and interacting with some wonderful people who have helped shape Micro Social into the app it is now. I’ve also had to say no to things a surprising number of times, and I don’t like it at all.

This hatred of saying no comes from the same place that my inability to accept praise does. Somewhere deep in my soul, my childhood no doubt, that wants to run away at the mere idea of it. I’m a people-pleaser. Some would argue, to a fault. It’s a skill I have had to learn how to deal with, and saying that to users of my app is especially hard.

As I wrote about right at the start, I wanted Micro Social to be very targeted in the way it worked. Providing something that I wanted from a micro.blog app, and not becoming all things to all people. It’s easy to get side tracked, though. The app is already a long way away from what I intended it to be, with features and abilities that I didn’t even dream of when I started.

In many ways, it is being shaped by its users. I’ve added many things that users have requested and been able to do them quickly and fairly well. I have still had to say no to more feature requests than I thought, and that is something I have found hard. Furthermore, I hope the email replies I have sent have made the right impression, and I have made the appropriate justifications in them.

There are some emails that I have had to simply delete because they have not been worded very nicely, but thankfully they have been few and far between. I apologise for saying no, but I hope you understand.

🔗 Important Update for Consumer Ai Pin Customers – Ground Control

Device Timeline: Your Ai Pin will continue to function normally until 12pm PST on February 28, 2025. After this date, it will no longer connect to Humane’s servers, and .Center access will be fully retired.

That timeline is ridiculously short.

They clearly have next to no users.